in the ignorance of not knowing
i was living without you
you are more present
in your absence
than any of the things around me
that i can touch with certainty
at any time
the emptiness left by the imprint of your soul
has become the shape in which
i live my life.
Another wonderful poem from Cheryl at hold this space.
I love her stuff because it works on so many different levels.
This poem could be about the precious relationship/friendship that shattered… the death of a loved one… separation from family or friends. Their presence lingers… their influence still shaping the present and the future.
It also has echoes of R.S. Thomas and Via Negativa (Negative Theology). (If you read my old blog you will know how much I love Thomas’s poetry). Thomas speaks of a God who is wholly present in his absence, knowable in his hiddenness and who speaks in silence.
He is “the darkness between stars”.
We follow “the echoes…the footprints he has just left…”
Why no! I never thought other than
That God is that great absence
In our lives, the empty silence
Within, the place where we go
Seeking, not in hope to
Arrive or find. He keeps the interstices
In our knowledge, the darkness
Between stars. His are the echoes
We follow, the footprints he has just
Left. We put our hands in
His side hoping to find
It warm. We look at people
And places as though he had looked
At them, too; but miss the reflection.
Via Negativa (R.S. Thomas)
Picture is ‘tiptoe through the shallows’ by Mike Lockie on Flickr